Monday, August 12, 2013

A week later....

Kensington, Maryland- August 12



All good things must come to an end, sort of...  

Last Tuesday I packed up my 55lbs suit case and headed back to San Francisco via Fort Lauderdale.  Our good friends Paige and Charlie postponed their lunch hours to pick me up and we had a great late lunch together.   I met Paige many moons ago, when she was working in personnel (the term HR had yet to be invented) at Saks Fifth Avenue in Chevy  Chase, Maryland (this was probably 1985), she hired me to do inventory, which re-numerated me with a small check and two days of shopping discounts at Saks.   Don't remember what I bought, likely it would not fit today, but so began my friendship with Paige.   She later met the love of her life, Charlie, they married, she went to work with Claire at the travel agency, and it goes from there.  Charlie and Paige have two very beautiful, smart daughters, and over the years we have had lots of fun times in California, Florida, Washington DC, Key West and France together.


Me, Paige and Charlie


Lunch went by too fast, and soon I was back at the Ft. Lauderdale airport, and then on the plane home.   Reinold met me at SFO - the circle was complete!  I had a busy few days before leaving again this past Saturday - saw my parents one night for dinner, and Simon/Elizabeth on Friday.  Currently I'm attending a certification class in Fairfax, Virginia, staying with some other friends, Barb, Drew and Cailin in Kensington, Maryland just north of Washington, DC.   Cailin is keep me on my toes, when I arrived Saturday, and knocked on the door, this 4 year bundle of nuclear energy belted out "It's open...".   We've been having a good time, in between my trying to understand how to describe an ENTJ...but I got a 100% on my first test today, so I must be making progress!


Cailin and her dad, Drew

And so life goes on.  Hopefully I'll have some consulting work soon, in the interim I'm catching up on some training and certification opportunities that I neglected in the past couple years, and quite honestly I'm kind of enjoying for now being in limbo.   August is a dead month for job searching regardless, however I'm still very certain something good is on the horizon.    The past 40 or so days have been enlightening - Reinold and I are blessed with a remarkable, global network of friends and family, it has been easy in the past 12 months to lose sight of that with other things going on, but I'm back in focus now.   I have also discovered joy in writing this blog, and will be starting another one shortly about the end of summer/early fall adventures of looking for a job, and general thoughts on life.  

Lots of people to thank for my incredible month, including Fiona, Tom, Annette, Anita, Andrew, Sharon, the Jackson 5, Roger, Rosy, Louise, Greg, Rob, Juliet, Carmen, Will, Todd, Kerry, Claire, Paige, Charlie....and many others.   And thank you to Reinold, who patiently supported this undertaking as he does with so many things in our life together.

So stay tuned, the adventure continues... 

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Key West Top 10/Headed Home

Key West - August 6

In 2.5 hours I'm headed north to Ft. Lauderdale, for lunch with Paige and Charlie, then off to San Francisco, where I will land around 8:30 tonight - the global circumference will be complete!   As fun as this has been, I am ready to get home, see Reinold and our two fuzzy friends....and get ready to leave again Saturday for my MBTI certification course in Washington, DC, followed by a weekend with Reinold at Bob and Sally's place in Utah.

Monday was low key, usual routine, in the evening Claire's friends TK and Brady came over, and TK made grouper for dinner, fantastic meal, fun night.    About 6am this morning it finally rained here, torrential downpour for about 25 minutes, which cooled things off significantly, though still very humid.   Claire and I are just back from our walk, she has been a fabulous host all week, and made the final stop very enjoyable and restful.

So, the Key West Top 10:

#10 - Fresh grouper, snapper and Florida pink shrimp - amazing seafood here
#9 - Katie the cat's at a distance tolerance of me, versus her usual run for the closet act (Tim, eat your heart out...)
#8 - Amazing meals out - Michael's (did this twice...), Antonia's, Salute, Santiago's, Blackfin, Hogfish
#7 - The backyard swimming pool
#6 - Claire's startling revelation on Sunday morning, 4 years after the kitchen remodel, that the cabinet handles didn't match - tied with this morning's revelation that the kitchen window is listing to the left.   I hope the fridge is o.k....
#5 - Lots of fun times with Pam, Claire and Carol on Friday/Saturday/Sunday
#4 - Sunset on Saturday
#3 - Iguanas and Chickens
#2 - Key West's relaxed atmosphere
#1 - 717 Ashe Street, and my pal Claire, the sister I never had

That's it for now, will blog from home tomorrow to wrap this up, stay tuned.

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Chickens, Iguanas and Graveyards

Key West, August 4


What can I say...life is tough here in Key West.

It's Sunday morning in the southern most point in the United States, have had a really relaxing few days with Claire, and now additional friends Pam Dawson and Carol McDonald who came down Friday from St. Petersburg to join us, we are also quietly celebrating Pam's ascension into the life decade I've been in for over a year now.   I met Pam back in the early days of eTrade in California, in the mid 1990's; she and Claire became good friends through Claire's long association with eTrade, and Carol keeps Pam honest and practical (we discussed the similarities of this to the Tom/Reinold dynamic last night at dinner).

Days here have consisted of the following general pattern - up around 8am, walk with Claire, splash in the pool,  coffee and breakfast, catch up on email/internet stuff, plan lunch, eat lunch, nap, splash in the pool again, go to the gym, come home, glass of wine, dinner.    Speaking of dinner, we have had some blowout meals this past week at Michael's, Antonia's, Santiago, Salute, complimented one night by my own culinary attempts (TG's version of chicken paillard; Claire liked it, wants me to make more for her to have for lunch after I'm gone Tuesday) (Bob, the asparagus was good too, thanks for the temperature guidance).

Weather has remained consistent, by afternoon quite warm and very humid, it's rained a great deal up in Miami, but not down here, not a drop.   Still some breezes in the early evening, last night we had a drink at sunset before dinner,  the view was spectacular.

 

Me and my lovely host
 

Evident throughout Key West is the impact of people on this pristine environment.   Yesterday I walked over to the Key West Cemetery to have a look around.   I was captivated by many of the head stones and the engravings, some of them close to 200 years old - people have been partying out here for a long time!  
 

 


 
 
In addition to this history, some of the departed left humor and mystery on their headstones.  One had an encryption "I told you I was sick", another said "At least I know where my husband is sleeping tonight".   Of particular interest to me was the following plate on an occupied mausoleum space:
 
 
 
I googled GROK, and have yet to figure out what it meant, there's a good bottle of red wine for anyone that can email me the answer.
 
During the cemetery walk, I also encountered two feral examples of mankind's presence in paradise, chickens and iguanas.   In addition to a lot of cats and many inebriated tourists, Key West also has thousands of feral chickens walking around, often bravely crossing busy roads, some leading their chicks in maternal procession, roosters crowing at all hours, all descendants of chickens people brought here for eggs and food, that escaped and became part of the scene.   Anywhere else in United States you'd have the local municipality rounding them up and dispatching them to the local Fosters Farms plant, but not here - the public tolerance of these birds is an example of the general relaxed and accepting attitude of the 15,000 year round residents in Key West.
 
 
Rooster in fast retreat from my camera - not shown was his lady friend hiding behind the green bin
 
 
Another exotic example of pet ownership gone wrong is the abundance of colorful iguanas.   Discarded pet iguanas have very successfully survived and multiplied throughout parts of south Florida, and as voracious herbivores, they have laid waste to various home gardens, fruit trees, etc.  A few winters ago, they had an unusual cold snap in and around Ft. Lauderdale, resulting in many frozen iguanas falling dead out of the trees they typically hangout in during the night - apparently a very messy scene to wake up to...

 
While I have heard many iguana stories over the years, until my cemetery tour yesterday I had yet to see one in action.   Claire has one that visits her backyard, apparently their guano is fairly disgusting and not fun to clean up (but then again, what animal's guano is enjoyable?) however, the one that fouled Claire's deck has yet to show his/her face this week.   In the cemetery, however, they were all over the place, multiple/vibrant colors, shapes, and in general very timid, they'd run away and hide under a grave stone before you could get a picture, with one exception....
 

 
Myron, one big, colorful, un-intimidated cemetery iguana
 
 
I decided to name him Myron, although quite honestly Myron may have been a she, I wasn't sure how to determine that with any level of anatomic precision.   Myron also had very long claws, and while I know they are generally vegan, I decided getting any closer was probably not in my best interests.  The iguanas in Key West are being fruitful and multiplying, and there is faint evidence of emerging intolerance of these lizards, as demonstrated by a sign in a home adjacent to the cemetery.

 
 Reptile intolerance, Key West style
 
 
1.5 days left in Key West, then its homeward bound, via a lunch stopover in Ft. Lauderdale with our good friends Paige and Charlie.   Key West top 10 coming tomorrow, stay tuned.


Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Carolina Fun and Key West Living

Key West, July 31

Ah, life in the Keys.....

I arrived here yesterday after a very fun two days, first in and around Greenville with Reinold's family.   Sunday night I took Reinold's mom, Suzy, his sister, Jennifer and her husband, Ray to Devereaux's, a great southern fusion restaurant in downtown Greenville.   Greenville is undergoing a renaissance, accompanied by a burgeoning food scene.   We had an awesome meal, I was particularly pleased by my mother in-law's appetite, starting with a foie gras appetizer (you can still eat that legally in South Carolina) - really fun night.   Monday Suzy and I had breakfast together, then I drove south to Pendleton, and had a great time visiting Reinold's dad, Dick.  We had a great conversation, and he shared some very good photos of young Reinold with me, that I include here for your viewing pleasure...(sorry RT, couldn't resist, you were a cute kid!).

 
Yes, that's my leg in the top, I was holding the photo album on my lap

 
Aw shucks....


After lunch with Dick, I drove back to the Charlotte area, and had  a very fun Monday night and great bbq at my good friends Todd and Kerry Stanelle's home in Waxhaw, NC, just south of Charlotte.   Todd and I met in the late 90's when we both worked at Qwest (now called Centurylink) - Todd was based in Columbus, Ohio, and I managed to work in three different cities for Qwest during my tenure there (Arlington, Houston and Denver) - we were great colleagues, became very good friends, and both of us ended up being laid off after Qwest acquired US West in one of the most ugly corporate mergers I've ever seen.    That fork in the road led Todd (and Kerry, along with their sons Ben and Zachary) to a new job in Charlotte, where they have lived ever since.   It was that same event that resulted in Reinold and I moving to Alameda, where we have happily resided for almost 11 years.

 
Monday night on the deck - Kelly, Melissa, Zachary, Kerry and Todd (Ben was at work making burritos and nachos)

 
 
Todd modeling his Oktoberfest hat

Tuesday I had an easy trip south, and arrived in Key West to spend the final week of this journey hanging out with Claire, the sister I never had.

Little history on Claire/Tom.   Both of us have a common friend, Dan Heminger, whose family was a client of Claire (Claire is a travel professional).    When Dan started his own travel and convention business, he hired Claire to manage the travel side of the enterprise, and thus was born Biscayne Conventions and Events, and the affiliated BCE Travel.   It was based in Ft. Lauderdale, and on a trip down to Florida on or about 1989 to see Dan, I met Claire.   We hit it off instantly, and what ensued was a tremendous friendship that prospers right up to this moment in time.   When BCE closed, Claire started her own travel business.   Several years later I found myself affiliated with eTrade, introduced Claire to them, and she for many years did most of their corporate travel.   This account also yielded an introduction to Tim Heard, who is now Claire's husband, and it is their Key West hideaway that I scribe this latest blog entry from.

 
Claire and Tim's Key West House

To say life here is laid back would be a gross understatement.   No one drives in Key West - you either walk or ride a bike.   This time of year it gets very warm and is humid, but around 4pm breezes kick up off the ocean, the occasional thunderstorm floats through, and it becomes delightfully tropical and soothing.   There are lots of feral chickens running around the whole town, and lots of cats, some domestic, some feral.   Walking down Ashe street last night on our way to dinner, Claire manifested her cat whispering abilities, and suddenly 5 or 6 cats came out, they know her from her frequent walks down the street, and came up to say hello - kind of like a scene out of Dr. Doolittle!   Claire and Tim have a big network of very kind, funny friends here, and several of them appeared at the restaurant last night as we were eating, and ratcheted up the fun.   We left there and went to a wine bar, and then I made Claire walk home (they do have cabs here, but we needed the walk...), we both were sound asleep by midnight.   

Tim unfortunately is not here - he's based out of St. Louis, and is working this week.   Claire is able to work remotely, and the living room here is also her Key West office, in fact as I type she is seated on the couch likely issuing another airplane ticket.

 
Claire, Siah (under table) and Katie (on the couch) hard at work in Key West

Today I slept late, had a phone screen with a headhunter (more on that shortly), we went for a walk, I went out and got us lunch (amazing Cuban sandwich for me today from Sandy's - likely will need to repeat that experience at least once more during my time here), I had a nap, then walked down to the local gym to workout.    As an example of the pace here, this nice little gym had no one at the front desk, so I just worked out, then found the manager, and paid my day fee - no hassle, total trust, no worries.   You wouldn't be able to do that in a gym in San Francisco, nor even the venerable Alameda Athletic Club.   Tonight we are headed out to a great Italian restaurant, Antonia's, tomorrow we are staying in and I think I am cooking - poor Claire!

On the work front, I talked to a headhunter today about a job in SF - it ended up not being at my level, but I made a great connection, got a referral to another job opportunity, and what I think was a genuine statement that I should have lots of opportunities to consider based on my background.  Very encouraging, I don't think it was headhunter BS either.    When I started this trip, I was having a hard time summoning enthusiasm around another corporate HR job.   As the days have passed, and I've had time to think about the past year at Blue Shield, I've gained some perspective only distance and time can provide.  It was really tough there at the end of last year, but as my wise career coach Pat pointed out to me earlier this year, I got through that, reinforcing the old adage about what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.   I'm grateful for the transitional support I received from Blue Shield, and while no job gig is ever perfect, there are lots of amazing things going on in the business world that I would love to contribute to.   Tomorrow I'm going to apply for a couple jobs on LinkedIn, and am going to follow up on the opportunity the headhunter told me about today.   I'm also going to be certified in two organizational diagnostic methods next month, and am actually excited about the learning experience involved in both.    It's nice to again feel good about my profession.

That's it for now, on a side note Mom your Walker's Crisps are still in good shape, I look forward to passing them off to you next week!   Stay tuned.

Sunday, July 28, 2013

Have a Candy and Crape Myrtles

Raleigh, July 28



It's Sunday morning, I'm sitting in my hotel room overlooking the city of Raleigh, North Carolina.   After an uneventful flight to DC, that included a 2 hour stopover in Munich (and a pretzel and beer in the Lufthansa lounge), I arrived Thursday evening at Dulles airport, zipped through customs (you have to love Global Entry), and was picked up by my good friend Will Long.   I have known Will since 1989, when he decided to move to Washington, DC after being laid off from a banking job in North Carolina (for those that don't know, I lived in DC from 1988 until 1995, and then again in 1999).   Will's family has its roots in North Carolina, Will's dad Bill was a Presbyterian minister, and they lived in Mocksville, half way between Winston-Salem and Charlotte.   Will went to Davidson for college, and then UNC for graduate school - his whole life up until 1989 was NC centric, and then he was laid off.   He used that fork in the road to move north, and in the 20+ years since built a great life in Washington initially for himself, and later with his partner Ray, that included a spectacular turn of the century row house in Adams Morgan, complete with a killer roof deck.  Over the years, Reinold and I have had a lot of good times with Will and Ray, they are two of our dearest friends.




My good buddy Will at Union Station in DC on Friday

I share all of this for context, because Will and Ray are in the process of leaving DC and moving to San Francisco - the beautiful house is sold, a swanky SF apartment is rented, Ray is already living there, and soon Will will have a California driver's license.    As this was his last summer in DC, he and I decided to retrace our steps of 20 years ago and come down to Raleigh to attend a fund raising event called the Crape Myrtle Festival, that raises money for HIV/AIDS support organizations in and around Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill.   20 years ago there was still significant social stigma about this health crisis in North Carolina, and very limited funding and public interest for support organizations.  The event was held outside in a field near Chapel Hill, we had a great time then, so we decided to retrace our steps (Ray and Reinold declined to join us...).   It is a testament to the evolution of our society that this modest organization has in two decades become a highly sophisticated, well supported institution - the event last night was held in the lobby of the Raleigh civic auditorium, a long way from the field of 20 years ago.

We had lots of fun at the party, had dinner Friday night with some old friends, and Will and I got to have some good catch up time over the past couple days.  On a sad note, a very good family friend of the Longs, Hugh, passed away last Monday, and Will had to make a day trip over to Winston-Salem for Hugh's funeral yesterday.   While he was gone, I entertained myself by walking around Raleigh and finding a new suit case (mine busted, and was not going to survive another airplane flight), Will was back in Raleigh around 7:30pm last night, and we headed to the event which was just down the street from the hotel.



Tom, Will and Will's friend Brooks at the Crape Myrtle party Saturday night



Tom and Brooks in the photo booth....

To get here,  rather than drive we elected to take the train down, and had a very funny trip Friday on a somewhat tired, packed Amtrak train called the Carolinian.   Seated behind us was a woman and her 3 year old son, who very early on into the trip started screaming.  When Will got up to see what was going on, his mother took offense, and began telling the little twerp he could cry and scream all he wanted to, because she had bought him his own ticket.   Will had the good sense to grovel and apologize to the woman, however that child babbled on incessantly for five hours, frequently saying "Have a candy" and repeating everything his mother was saying in her phone conversations.  "Have a candy" became a running joke line for the weekend.   Mom had frequent cell phone conversations with various suitors, family members, etc. - I felt as if I knew her personally by the time we got off in Raleigh (candy boy and mom continued on to Greensboro).

The view from the train was fascinating, we went through beautiful farm country, tobacco fields, old towns in various states of decline - very different from California.   Later this morning I continue the journey south to Charlotte on the train, and then rent a car and drive over to Greenville, South Carolina, where I am having dinner tonight with my in-laws.



View from back of the train on Friday                             Tobacco fields

On a botanical side note, the crape myrtle, for which the event last night is named after, is a beautiful bush/tree that grows all over the Southeast, thrives in the warmth and humidity, and in late July/early August blooms in shades of red, white, and purple.   I wish we could grow them in our yard in Alameda, alas I don't think a crape myrtle would enjoy the foggy summer mornings of the Bay Area.   One of many dividends of being down here this time of year is seeing these wonderful plants in full bloom.



The Crape Myrtle....

I just came back from the lobby, and said goodbye to Will, his train is at 10:20, mine is at 11:45, and the journey continues....   It has been 31 days since I wrapped up at Blue Shield, feels more like six months!   More on that subject later, stay tuned.

  Old Railway HQ building in Raleigh

 

 
North Carolina State Capitol with Polk/Jackson/Johnson statue

 

Thursday, July 25, 2013

America Bound,via Deutschland

Birmingham Airport, July 25

Sitting comfortably in the Servisair lounge at Birmingham airport, off to Munich in an hour and 45 minutes, then on to Washington, DC.    The last three weeks have gone by very quickly, what an amazing 21 days, especially the adjacency to little George VII's arrival.   Had a great evening on Tuesday in London with Rob, Juliet and Carmen, at a cabaret/burlesque venue called Volupte.   The evening starts upstairs at the bar, you are then escorted downstairs to the dining area/stage.   The MC then comes out, along with a very talented and unconventional piano player, who entertain between burlesque acts and cabaret songs.   Dinner was very good, afterwards we hit a couple pubs, that were adorned with blue balloons for GVII, I then parted ways with them a bit after midnight and headed back to the hotel.

Apparently they continued to have fun, too much fun as it turns out based on the email conversation I had with Carmen yesterday morning (something about a headache, couldn't remember what time they got back to their hotel, etc., etc......).   I did another walk around the perimeter of Hyde Park, packed up, and was on an 11:43 train out of Euston for Birmingham.  Had a quiet afternoon, then went into the center of town, and walked over to Phil's office on George Street.  Birmingham is an interesting city - prior to world war II there was a lot of money in this town, based on manufacturing and trade, apparently there were some amazing examples of Georgian brick architecture  in offices, factories, etc.  Sadly, the Germans made waste of Birmingham, and nearby Coventry, during the war, and many of the old buildings in the city center were destroyed.   As a result, parts of Birmingham are a curious mix of post war/socialist/1950's blocks, and more recently very modern architecture.    New Street train station is undergoing a transformative renovation that will yield a beautiful transportation hub.  Phil's office is in an area that was spared in the bombing, and still has a fair number of old buildings.  We walked from there to a very good Italian restaurant (he had been their property agent in locating the space), and we sat outside and had a great dinner and long talk/catch up.   Afterwards he dropped me back at New Street Station, and I was back in my fancy (not really...) Novotel airport hotel room and asleep at 10pm.

On a side note, yesterday afternoon I watched an episode of a very clever BBC show, A Taste of my Life, where the BBC chef Nigel Slater interviews famous people about their lives, but uses food they remember from their past to create a story line in the interview.   In this episode, he was talking to Alan Bennett, who is the author of the play the History Boys, and Bennett recollected the post war period in the UK when food supplies were still rationed, things his mother prepared (lamb pie using scraps, simple custard pie with nutmeg on the top, etc.) - Slater then cooks the dish, and the two continue the interview eating the food.   The food acts as to bring forward more memories, and the conversation progresses from there.   Really cool show, will have to get the DVD's when I'm home in two weeks.

In any event, as promised,  here's the UK top 10:

#10:  The assorted characters I talked to in their canal barges near Foxton
#9:    Watching the Jackson boys consume vast platters of grilled sausages and burgers
#8:    Juliet's fascination with my pronunciation of aluminum (in the UK, they mispronounce it as alewmineeum...)
#7:    Playing ping pong with Louise at Western Farm
#6:    Picking up Pip at cricket in Great Bowden, and having a very engaging conversation with him on the way home about many various topics, including sexism (not bad for a fellow who is only 12...)
#5:    Christening of the great dining hall at Western Farm on Saturday night
#4:    Sunday lunch at Fox's Den
#3:    Canal walks and sunsets from the deck in Foxton
#2:    Godson and Godfather banter
#1:    George VII arrival and the masses of crazy people, including me, assembled at St. Mary's Hospital

No pics today, will post some more UK photos from either DC or Raleigh in the next day or so.   Special kudos to Caroline and Phil, who over the years have provided wonderful hospitality to me and my family (Caroline, we need you to declare your US travel date...) during many memorable and enjoyable trips.   Off to Munich for two hours, then a hop across the pond where Will will be waiting for me at Dulles Airport.   Stay tuned.

Oh, and Sandra fear not, three bags of Walkers Crisps are on the chair next to me, with your name written all over them. :)

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Out of the Country, Into the City, Royal Baby

London, July 23

It is the day after the royal birth, what a scene....






But more on that later.   My Midland's country retreat sadly ended yesterday.   Saturday was spent with the Jacksons, Greg, Louise, and the Jackson's neighbors formally blessing the new addition of the Jackson home in Peatling Magna.   When I say new, it is kind of new, in that it is a gradual construction project that will double the size of their home on Western Farm.   This has been Caroline's project for over two years, and it is getting close to finished, she believes it will be fully functional by December, in time for Christmas dinner.   Dinner was a combo of grilled tuna/sword fish, sausages and burgers, accompanied by some great vegetable dishes, and some awesome European wines Phil acquired earlier in the day from his wine merchant in Birmingham.   George Jackson has just wrapped up the English equivalent of high school, and is taking a gap year, during which he hopes to land a cooking job at a ski resort in France or Italy.   In preparation for that, he has taken an interest in cooking, and it seems as if he may have a natural culinary skill - he prepped the fish and helped grill, the marinade on both fish were outstanding.    We had lots of laughs and fun.  George then kindly offered to drive Louise, Greg and me back to Foxton, where the evening ended around midnight.



Louise, Tom, Caroline in the emerging kitchen....

Sunday I hosted lunch, which in the UK is essentially a big end of week meal, more like a dinner event but at 2pm.   In addition to the five Jacksons and Greg/Louise, Caroline's brother Rob, his girl friend Juliet and their friend Carmen from Romania joined us, last guests left around 8pm.   I then proceeded to clean up the cottage, do a load of laundry, and finally hit the hay around 10pm.




Juliet, Tom and Carmen at Foxton Locks





Sunday Lunch Crowd, from left to right:  Rob, Juliet, Louise, Greg, Phil, George, Caroline, Carmen




Cottage on the last day....

The weather here has been highly variable.   All last week it was hot and humid during the day, but cool and pleasant, almost chilly, at night.    Saturday and Sunday were cloudy and cool, I woke up yesterday to a very foggy scene that looked more like October than July.   By the time I got down to London, it was 93F or 34C, very humid, felt like I was in Washington DC!    Last night there were big thunder storms, today it is much cooler.

I packed up and rolled out of Foxton around 9:30, dropped off the borrowed pots and utensils at the Jacksons, and was on the train from Birmingham to London by about 11:45.   As I assume all of you know, the royal baby emerged yesterday at 4:24pm approximately, although that wasn't confirmed until later in the evening, however I am pleased to boast that I was standing at St. Mary's hospital at 4:24pm yesterday with the masses and press, enjoying what could only be described as setting for a Fellini style movie.   There was one fellow who had been camped out there for a week, determined to be adjacent to the hospital when the child arrived.   Another woman had baked a cake, and held noble aspirations of delivering it to the royal couple as a gift (the cake by 5pm in the heat looked kind of pathetic, but her spirit was infectious).   Most of you know that I tend to disdain these kind of things, however I really enjoyed hanging out there yesterday, watching the journalists from all over the world try and occupy their time waiting, talking to an Italian reporter about why an American would be interested in this (he was from Milan, if you get that paper, I may be quoted...), and helping two young Australian guys on holiday position themselves strategically in front of the ABC (that's Australian Broadcasting Company) crew and cameras in hopes their parents would see them on the evening news.

They say it may be a week before we know the young fellow's name, I was hoping for Thomas, but I think that wish may be in the same category as that wonderful woman's cake!



Bench where the fellow who had camped out for a week (also pictured, he's wearing the Union Jack themed outfit) slept....









NBC news cameras, and board where they had a football type pool betting on birth date, time and names...and the masses gathered to await the blessed event outside of St. Mary's hospital

I'm staying near Marble Arch, off of Oxford street, with some great shopping opportunities (Reinold please note that I have applied restraint, sort of....you'll see when I get home), and just down the street a really good Indian restaurant that is based on the food cart scene in Delhi and Mumbai, had an amazing meal last night, then walked around in steamy London before calling it a night.    The Doubletree Marble Arch, where I am staying, is recently renovated, with amazing central A/C, it would otherwise be fairly miserable sleeping here.

Today I had a lazy morning, went down for breakfast, exchanged something I bought at Marks and Spencer, and will likely head over to Hyde Park this afternoon.   Tonight, Rob, Juliet and Carmen are coming into London, and have invited me to join them at a cabaret/burlesque dinner venue called Volupte, should be lots of fun.   Tomorrow its back up to Birmingham and dinner with Phil, then Thursday I head out to Washington, DC to meet up with Will.

On a closing note, some have asked me if I have disengaged from the various emotions associated with my wrap up at Blue Shield, and if I am fretting/worried about what's next, etc.   As far as disengaging, it got started in Australia, however I think that moment completely arrived on a canal walk Friday morning, and I have been blissfully enjoying it ever since.   As far as what comes next, I am curiously not concerned, and am kind of excited about the possibilities, while enjoying an extended break.   I find inspiration in my Dad, who in the mid 1970's had the courage to get out of a job he didn't like, and find a situation that he enjoyed professionally, and gave him the time he wanted with his family.  He landed well, I intend to mimic his navigation!

That's it for now, next entry the UK Top 10, stay tuned....

Saturday, July 20, 2013

UK Country Living

Foxton, July 20

It's been a great few days since making the big hop from Adelaide to the UK.   After six hours in Singapore, I flew from there nonstop to Zurich.  I know some reading this are airline enthusiasts, so I thought I'd hum a few bars about the flight experience.


While I'm sure there are days this doesn't happen, Singapore Airlines and Swiss Air were fantastic.  Every flight was on time, the food in business was really good (Asian fish dish with noodles going up to Singapore, beef filet from Singapore to Zurich), and they feed you continually if you are so inclined.  Wines were also terrific, I had an amazing Swiss Riesling on the flight to Zurich, great Bordeauxs, etc..   My bag had to change flights twice, it arrived in Birmingham punctually, I was off the plane and getting into my rental car in less than 30 minutes Tuesday morning.   From Zurich to Birmingham, I was the only passenger in business, I assumed on an hour flight I'd get a cup of copy (just like any hour flight in first in the United States), but no, another copious platter was placed in front of me, containing a wonderful omelet, fresh fruit, croissant, roll, really good apricot jam, excellent coffee, fresh squeezed orange juice, etc.   Since I had just had a similar breakfast experience flying into Zurich, I wasn't able to eat much of it, but it is really fun to experience this level of service, and sadly points out how miserable things have become with flying in the US.

In any event, after arriving, I found myself in the Midlands an hour before I was suppose to get the key to the cottage, so I did a bit of grocery shopping at Waitrose in Lutterworth, and then met Laura, the proprietress of Foxton Locks Lodges, at the cottage I'm currently staying in, Fox's Den.   It is a very comfortable, almost luxurious log cabin, with two bedrooms, two full baths, and fully appointed kitchen (will full size American style fridge), nice living room, private outdoor hot tub and a great deck off the back that overlooks the countryside, with a gas bbq.   I am about a quarter mile walk from the canal, near the Foxton Locks, which is a still functioning lock junction on the old canal system.

England at one time had a massive system of inland waterways, the canal that runs through Foxton, down to Market Harborough, is a remnant of that.   Today, there is no commerce on these canals, instead people own long, narrow barges that are appointed with kitchens, sitting areas, bedrooms, etc. and cruise up and down the canals.   Some of the barges are quite elaborate, some not so much, and their occupants range from very kind interesting people (yes, I've become a tow path lurker, and have struck up all sorts of conversations), to some scary people (one guy had a black plastic skull sitting on the bow of his barge, another couple who look like they had bathed in the canal invited me to smoke something with them, I declined....).   Barge occupants aside, the canals are beautiful, and I have spent many hours out walking along the tow path.


Tuesday night when I got in my very good friends the Jacksons, who live about 8 miles from here, had me over for dinner, which with three young teenagers amounted to meat fest, complete with salad and potatoes, and some good wine.    For those that don't know the story, Philip Jackson and I have been friends for over 30 years.  My high school in Marin, Redwood, and his Upper School in Blandford Forum, Dorset had a student exchange program.  Both Phil and I applied to go, and we were both rejected, but smart enough to stay connected to the program, and he ended up visiting a Redwood student, Jill Husen, the summer after she came back from her year in the UK.  I knew Jill, she introduced me to Phil, and the rest was history.   On ensuing trips back, Phil stayed with us, and was spoiled rotten by my Mom who packed him lunches every day when he went out sightseeing, and did his laundry -he essentially endeared himself to the Giles family.   I was treated equally as well by Phil's parent, John and June, on several trips to the UK.    Life has presented many changes and adventures since, but we have remained friends to this day.   Phil is married to Caroline, they moved up to Leicestershire approximately 15 years ago so that Caroline could take over managing her family business, Palmers Garden Centre, three fantastic sons have emerged, George, Jack and Pip, and I have the honor of being Jack's godfather.   On Wednesday night, the Jackson boys came over for dinner at the cottage, and broke in the hot tub.


George is showing off in the back, Jack is sitting to the side trying not to get his hair wet, Pip is enjoying the bubbles.

Sunset that night as viewed from the deck Wednesday night was amazing:


The UK is currently experiencing one of the hottest summers in recent times, however hot here is about 88 degrees Fahrenheit, or 30 degrees Celsius - I'm sure my Aussie fans are laughing at this, however humidity is involved, and the afternoons are kind of tough.   Nights however are cool, unlike the US east (Andrew I noted your weather posting on FB the other night with the 10pm reading in Central Park), and good for sleeping, you don't really need a/c.  Thursday, I went up to Leicester to have dinner with Roger and Rosy Dickinson, the brother and sister in-law of my good friend Simon.    They have a wonderful row house in an older Leicester neighborhood, we enjoyed some nice Italian wine and Rosy cooked a fantastic salmon and shrimp dinner.  We had too much fun, however, and I missed the last train to Market Harborough, so I had to take a cab from Leicester to MH, and had a very funny, enjoyable conversation with the driver, Hesh, who was from Mumbai, and had been a VP of HR there for a tech outsourcing company.    Not sure if that was a sign about my future, but he seemed very grateful to be in the UK, and the fact that he was driving a cab was not of great significance to him, relative to what being here would eventually offer his children.    Kind of puts a lot of things in perspective when you think about what he and his wife were willing to do/sacrifice.

Friday the Jackson took me to a country living association or CLA annual fair event at Rangle Hall - lots of fun, but very warm.   Caroline told me to dress distinctively, so I wore an Indonesian batik shirt I bought in Singapore for the occasion....I stood out like a sore thumb, but still had a great time.


Last night we did another bbq at the Jacksons, Caroline's brother Rob, his girl friend Juliette, and her friend from Romania, Karman, joined us, lots of fun.   Today my friends Louise and Greg from London join us for the weekend, and the British summer country living continues.   Had another great walk this morning, I will miss the access to this when I head down to London Monday, it has been great for clearing my head and thinking about what's coming next in life.  

That's it for now, stay tuned for more.

Monday, July 15, 2013

1 down, 2 to go....

Singapore, July 15

Short entry today, I'm currently sitting in the Gold Kris Lounge at the Singapore airport, after a very pleasant and uneventful first flight today from Adelaide to Singapore.    Last night Tom, James, Kitty and I played a very good game of Monopoly.   Last time we did this, in January, Tom creamed us with vast utility, transportation  and real estate holdings, forcing Reinold, me and his cherished girl friend Kitty into shaming bankruptcy and ruin - and he gloated about it.    I'm please to report that the rematch of last night saw James killing all of us with his significant hotel holdings on the dark green and blue streets (don't remember the names, they were unique to Australia).   I told Tom karma was hell.  We agreed another match would be played in January 2014...

This morning went out for a nice predawn walk with Fiona and Duke, then finished packing and Fiona took me to the airport - she was meeting coworkers flying in from Sydney and Melbourne, so we had a quick coffee before she was off, and I headed onto the 7 hour flight up here.

It is 88 degrees, or 31 degrees depending which system you are on, and very humid and rainy.  Reinold encouraged me to go into to town for dinner (I have a six hour layover), and I did actually fill out the immigration form for Singapore, but it looked really miserable outside, and I am looking at almost another 20 hours in these clothes, so I'm parked for now in the airline club.

Today's flight took us pretty much north across the center of Australia - the pilot actually made an announcement that ATC gave him a routing deviation, and he was going to fly past Ayers Rock/Uluru for everyone to see, it was beautifully clear:


From 38,000 feet it looks pretty small, but I had the fortune of seeing it on my first trip to Australia in the early 1990's, it was astounding.   It is also the spiritual center of the Aboriginal society, and is nowadays known more by the name of Uluru, versus Ayers Rock.    Of course I was sitting on the wrong side of the plane, but a very nice Australian couple on their way to Italy for vacation let me stand in front of them to snap this - thank you Audrey and Howard (who both simply replied "pleasure").

I arrive Zurich at 6:10 tomorrow morning, then finally get to Birmingham around 8:15 BST, apparently the UK is having spectacular summer weather, I'm looking forward to getting back into shorts and sandals!   Next entry from the Midlands, stay tuned.

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Aussie Pics

Adelaide, Sunday, July 14

Last day down under, amazing trip, lots of good walks/hikes, meals and excellent Australian wines.  Had a blowout dinner last night with Fiona, Andrew and Annette at a restaurant called Auge, today we took my buddy Duke back to the beach for a great walk, followed by breakfast at a cafĂ© called Doof Doof (that's food spelled backwards twice...not sure how they got that one, maybe they used the same brand consultant as the Fish Tail winery near Perth, but the breakfast was outstanding) with Peter, Anita, Andrew, Annette and Fiona (Duke stayed home and had a nap).   Later today Sharon and her son James will join Fiona, Tom (Fiona's son), Kitty (Tom's girl friend) and me for a lamb roast Sunday dinner followed by a revenge game of monopoly with Tom (he creamed us in true slum lord fashion last December, now it's my turn for revenge...).

I'd be sad and bittersweet today, however Fiona and Sharon will be up visiting us in about a month, and Reinold and I have already booked mileage tickets to come back down for New Years Eve, so it will only be see ya later at the airport tomorrow.

As promised, pictures are attached of various things below, top 10 from the past ten days:

#10:  Mandoon Winery near Perth, for their copious signs scattered about the Swan Valley proclaiming opening hours, only to find them closed and quiet....lots of laughs with Annette on this one.

#9:  Belinda the Qantas flight attendant, and her facial expression critique when asked if the chicken salad was hot or cold....we had the sausages instead as a result of her grimace.   Thank you Belinda.

#8:  Fiona's discovery on Wednesday that Sharon had placed our share of the January Barossa rental payment (handed to Sharon and Michael in Washington, DC in May by Reinold, for safe transport to Fiona) in Fiona's suit case, where it had sat since Fiona got her suit case back from Sharon upon her return to Adelaide in May...

#7:  Pickled octopus, a new found delicacy in Tom Giles' book - seriously.

#6:  The Mt. Lofty ascent with the Australian bionic woman.

#5:   Amazing massage from Anita on Monday, along with exercise tips, massage ball, and feline astrology guides.

#4:   Tom Booker's bedroom, which he graciously gave up for 10 days so that Reinold and I could have a cozy, comfortable place to crash each night.

#3:   Monday afternoon in the Adelaide Hills, great lunch, three great wineries, awesome time with Annette and Andrew

#2:   Multiple blow out dinners/snacks at Cantina Social, Panacea, Auge, Doof Doof, P'tite Ardoise Bistro in Perth, and the fantastic July 4th on July 5th party, with many wonderful, generous, kind and fun people

#1:   46 St. Lawrence Avenue and it's owner, Fiona, for providing Reinold and me with a home away from home 8000 miles away - thank God for Vietnamese junks is all I'm going to say!

10:40 flight tomorrow morning to Singapore, then on to Zurich and Birmingham, and summer returns. Stay tuned for more...

 
100% Purebred Dingo - I named him Doug after my brother...

 
First Saturday hike in search of Koalas and Roos

 
Success - one of 24 Koalas seen on Saturday, I named him Greg after my other brother
 
 
Adelaide beach walk Sunday, July 14

 
Tom  in Perth

 
Sunset, Adelaide Hills, Monday July 8
 
 
Start of Mt. Lofty Hike, looking down at waterfall, pool and parking lot

 
War Memorial in Perth

 
Roos on the hike

 
Waterfall, start of Mt Lofty Hike
 
 
4th of July, July 5th...Australian Style

 
Fiona & Annette & their interpretation of American hamburgers, 5th of July party